Are they really your friend?

I am so sick of judgemental people who judge someone before they get to know them. Also people who think they know whats best for another person when they are supposely their best friend and dont support them in their decisions. I guess some people who you thought was your friend might not be after all. Im so sick of ADULTS acting like little children! GROW UP!!!

I understand completely. I've had a few so-called friends that I thought were good ones turn around and jump to conclusions on something I said or did or rip me off only to act like it was all my fault. People can be so selfish and judgemental without ever really looking at themselves and how they treat others. We all make decisions in our lives that we may or do regret but thats a part of maturing and learning from our decisions and or mistakes. I don't let other peoples comments control my life...I'll listen but I do what I believe is best for me and my family.

i dont know i can be judgemental but only from the first impression. like if a person seems shallow they could turn out not to be down inside but dont you hang with that person when they arnt showing there inside?

here2vent wrote:

I am so sick of judgemental people who judge someone before they get to know them. Also people who think they know whats best for another person when they are supposely their best friend and dont support them in their decisions. I guess some people who you thought was your friend might not be after all. Im so sick of ADULTS acting like little children! GROW UP!!!

Sounds like my father!